When a very special little girl turned one year old last week, I had the privilege to photograph her first birthday. She was adorable, and her parents were such beautiful people as well. Along with having a first birthday photo session, I also took their family photos with their dog. And he was one of the most well behaved and trained dogs I've ever seen. He was huge but loved this little girl immensely. When families choose to include their dogs and pets in their photo session, I love it. Because for me, pets are an important part of the family! I love my dogs and will be a whole other blog session on my newest edition, Elliot soon. Until then, wish this little girl a very happy first birthday!
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Being able to photograph beautiful families like this one is one of the many reasons I love my job as a photographer. Capturing my own family and children is what started me on this journey into photography. Now being able to photograph other families and their children are why I continue to feel blessed enough o continue my journey not only with my own family but with other families as well.
Thie beautiful family endured the Round Rock, Texas heat with me for their family photo session. And let me tell you, their two kids were absolutely adorable!
A newborn baby is a blessing to his family. This little boy is the second boy to this growing family in North Austin. He was two months old when I photographed him, but he was still super sweet. Little Dylan is loved by his Mom, and it definitely shows. And look at those baby rolls! I just love it when newborns and infants have chunky, healthy baby rolls! Congratulations to Dylan's family!
It's been a month since Round Rock ISD let out of school. My two youngest children have been home for an additional three weeks on top of that month.
Before summer started, I had a bucket list of summer to dos I wanted to accomplish with my kids. It wasn't anything written or detailed, but in the back of my mind, I wanted to do a few things.
Then summer actually started and real life kicked in.
I had all four home with me, almost, all the time. I didn't have them signed up for any camps for the first three weeks of summer (which should have been the first indication that I needed to re-think my summer plans). The fighting, bickering, whining, and screaming started on a daily basis. My patience was being spread so thin I could practically see through it. And my air conditioning broke. In Texas. In the summer heat. We had to replace everything for both units or pretend we were living in the 1800s and sweat it out. On top of that, I started teaching more taekwondo classes over the summer and still had my photography business to keep going. I totally had time to sit around and eat bon bons all day (insert sarcasm font here).
Not surprisingly, the last shred of patience wore too thin, and I'd had enough of the whining, bickering, fighting, and general presence of my 4 children. The oldest two lost gaming privileges for a week. The youngest two got shipped off to preschool part time again. And I realized for as much as I love my children, I cannot spend 24/7 with them for my own sanity.
So I came up with a new bucket list for the summer. And here it is...
- Keep the children alive and well until school starts up again
That's it! And I think it's a pretty good goal.
I love my kids; I truly do. But I'm not perfect. And I desperately need time away from them. I was sitting in the kitchen last Friday, surrounded by my kids at 4:30pm, texting my husband asking when he was coming home, and realized I need time away. I want adult alone time. Granted it wasn't happening right then and there, and I can't just disappear for a few days randomly (although that would be really nice!). I crave quiet, adult time, where I can just relax and not be asked the same question 5 times in a row hoping my answer will change (cause it doesn't).
So my summer bucket list has been incinerated, and I'm completely ok with it. I'm not the Pinterest Mom which will hand make games for a summer full of fun. I'm the type that kicks my kids out of the house, tells them to stay on the property and enjoys a blissful hour of quiet while they play outside using their imaginations and random objects as weapons. I let them come in for water and to use the bathroom, but for the most part, I want them outside. I supervise from the comfort of inside the house.
My summer bucket list is a failure. And you know what? I don't care. It's fine. All four of my children will be normal, functioning adults without the thousands of extra things they could be doing over the summer. Instead, they are making memories of playing outside and just enjoying their childhood. And that's all that matters.
So if you're like me and you're a summer bucket list failure, raise your head high and high five yourself! We're all in this together!
Family photos are cherished. At the time, it may not feel that way. But in the future, everyone, including your grown-up children, will be glad they were taken. I remember dreading having family photos taken. The stress of getting ready, the outfits that were picked out for me as a child, the pressure of making Mom happy and being good to have the pictures turn out nice. It was an ordeal since at the time, digital wasn't readily used by anyone. As I look back at all those photos, I'm glad my Mom had them taken. We might not have been at the height of fashion at the time (or maybe we were and that's how bad 80s fashion was), but those family photos capture a memory.
With that said, I love being able to provide those memories for families in Round Rock today! Now I get to share those memories with others and capture another's family's love for each other. Because sometimes, you want the photo of a two year old crying about someone else touching his balloons!